Barbara Nock Obituary: Beloved Kerikeri Matriarch ‘Nan’ Passes Away Peacefully at 89, Family Announces Funeral Details
The family of Barbara Nock, affectionately known as “Nan,” is mourning the loss of a treasured matriarch who passed away suddenly but peacefully at her home in Kerikeri on August 7, surrounded by the people she loved.
Barbara, née Vautier, was 89 years old. Her passing has left a profound sense of loss among her family, friends, and the many people whose lives she touched throughout her long and meaningful life.
Barbara was a beloved mother to Cary, Murry, Peter, and Barry. She was also a cherished grandmother to 18 grandchildren and a great-grandmother to 25 great-grandchildren, leaving behind a remarkable family legacy that spans several generations.
To those closest to her, Barbara was much more than a mother and grandmother. She was the treasured matriarch of her family, a source of love, wisdom, guidance, and strength. Her family will forever remember the warmth she brought into their lives and the countless memories created over the years.
Barbara was also a dearly loved sister, aunty, cousin, and friend. Her kindness and presence extended well beyond her immediate family, touching the lives of many people in the wider community.
Her family shared the news of her passing with great sadness while also finding comfort in the knowledge that she died peacefully at home surrounded by her loved ones. Being surrounded by family during her final moments provided a meaningful farewell to a woman who had spent so much of her life caring for those around her.
Loved ones are also taking comfort in their belief that Barbara has been reunited with her beloved late husband, Graham “Pop” Nock. The couple shared a life together, and her family finds peace in imagining them together again.
Barbara leaves behind a lifetime of precious memories. From family gatherings and celebrations to the simple moments shared between generations, those memories will continue to provide comfort during the difficult days ahead.
Her legacy is particularly evident in the generations of family she leaves behind. With 18 grandchildren and 25 great-grandchildren, Barbara’s influence will continue through the family she helped nurture and love.
Friends and relatives are being welcomed to Barbara’s home at 25 Fairway Drive, Kerikeri, where she will be lying in repose from Saturday, August 8. Family members have warmly invited those who knew her to pay their respects and share memories of her life.
Parking is available on the road at the top of the driveway, while those requiring closer access have been welcomed to drive down to the house.
A service celebrating Barbara’s life will be held at 1 p.m. on Monday, August 10, at Frontline Church, located at 119 Hone Heke Road in Kerikeri. The gathering will provide family and friends with an opportunity to come together, remember Barbara, and celebrate the remarkable life she lived.
While her death has left an enormous void, Barbara’s loved ones are choosing to focus on the love she gave and the memories she leaves behind. Her life was defined by family, connection, and the generations of people who will continue to carry her memory forward.
Barbara Nock will be deeply missed by her children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, extended family, friends, and everyone who had the privilege of knowing her.
Her memory will remain cherished within the family she loved so dearly, and the lessons, stories, and traditions she passed down will continue through future generations.
May Barbara “Nan” Nock rest peacefully, reunited with her beloved Graham, and may her family find comfort in the lifetime of love and precious memories she leaves behind.

